ARE U SERIOUS!?!

WHEN LOVE IS WHAT U FEEL & ITS NOT BEING RETURNED WHAT DO YOU DO?
THE ANSWER IS IN FRONT OF YOU. ASK YOURSELF IS IT WORTH HURT FEELINGS & A BROKEN HEART?

I'VE BEEN THEIR & ITS NOT FUN BUT ITS THE TRUTH & THE TRUTH HURTS.
LOVE IS WHEN BOTH PEOPLE FEEL THE SAME THING & WHEN YOUR HEART FLUTTERS.

IF THAT'S NOT BEING RETURNED, WHY FIGHT WHAT'S NOT THERE?
THE HEART FEELS WHAT IT FEELS, & THE MIND KNOWS WHAT IT KNOWS.

LET GO & LET GOD WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE THE ANSWERS.

THAT'S JUST N' MY OPINION...
NEVADIVA4U

OMG-AGAIN!!

THIS IS ONE OF THOSE BLOG POST THAT WILL BE DONE ALL IN BOLD & CAPS..


I AM SICKENED!


LATELY SHOWS HAVE SHOWN INTERRACIAL- COMEDIES, DRAMAS TRANS GENDER SPECIALS, AND SHOWS THAT THE CREATORS OF MAJOR STATIONS ARE WILLING TO ADDRESS WHAT EVER TOPIC THAT STIMULATES THE MIND INTO VIEWING THE WORLD IN A WHOLE NEW WAY.


WE AS A PEOPLE CONCERNED WITH THE ATTITUDES THAT WILL STRUCTURE OUR FUTURE WAYS OF REALITY & LIVING IN A WHOLE.



MOST OF THESE SHOWS EXPRESS THAT THE RACIAL STRAINS HAVE DISSOLVED QUITE A BIT.

THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT, ITS GOOD TO HOPE FOR PROGRESS.



SADLY THAT ISN'T ALWAYS A TRUE REALITY.



DOES RACISM EXIST? YES.

JUST WHEN THINGS APPEAR TO BE JUST OK, WITH VERY LITTLE DRAMA AGAIN WE HAVE THIS:



DOYLESTOWN, Pa. (Aug. 28) - A white suburban mother who placed a 911 call claiming two black men had carjacked her — but instead flew to Disney World with her child to escape a looming arrest — was sent to prison Thursday for nine to 23 months.
Bonnie Sweeten, 38, pleaded guilty in Bucks County Court to identity theft and filing a false police report, misdemeanors that typically bring probation.
But a judge offended by Sweeten's performance on a 911 tape said her hoax led to a frantic national search, traumatized her daughter and, perhaps worst of all, tore open society's racial wounds.



WHEN WILL WE CEASE TO CREATE A SCAPE GOAT?



WHEN WE CREATE A SCAPE GOAT TO MAKE WHAT'S WRONG APPEAR CORRECT WE'RE LOSING OUR MORALS.

NOT BEING ABLE TO EXCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR OWN ACTIONS IS TRULY SAD ESPECIALLY WHEN IT CAUSES SUSPICION TOWARDS ANOTHER PERSON, OR ANOTHER RACE FOR THAT MATTER.



BE CAREFUL TO WHOM YOU POINT THE FINGER, THE DIRECTION ALWAYS LEADS BACK FROM WHICH IT CAME.



THAT'S JUST N' MY OPINION...

WOW!!!!!!!!

"THE 5TH AMENDMENT" DOES IT REALLY EXIST OR IS IT THAT IT JUST LOOKS GOOD ON PAPER? UNLESS AN ACT SUCH AS SPEECH CAUSES OR INCITES A RIOT DIRECTLY CAUSING HARM. SO WHEN IS FREEDOM OF SPEECH IGNORED? WHEN YOU EXPRESS YOURSELF & ARE JAILED FOR IT.



EXAMPLE:
http://www.bvblackspin.com/2009/08/10/rapper-cop-killing-song/

THIS LINK IS THE ONE THAT MADE ME SAY "WOW"
IS THE CONSTITUTION ALL BOGUS?
WILL I NOW BE JUDGE FOR MY OPINIONS?
AMERICA HOME OF THE FREE?
IF A SONG FROM EXPRESSION, WHICH IS SUPPOSE TO BE FREEDOM OF SPEECH.
WHERE DOES IT SAY LIMITED SPEECH OF WHAT YOU ARE FREE TO SAY?
THAT'S JUST QUESTIONS I WANTED TO ADDRESS.
N' MY OPINION THIS JUST ISN'T WHAT I THOUGHT WHEN MY FREEDOM OF SPEECH WAS SUPPOSED TO BE COVERED BY THE AMENDMENT.

Oh Boy!!

I wonder why it is that when people are alive & they do things, or say things we don't really care for, its okay to joke about.


So why is it when they die, its all in bad taste? Hmmmmmmmmmm... Curious.


Okay, "Wacko - Jacko" - "Boy Butt Bandit"
Nothing but the positive to say since his passing, all negative while alive.. No one live forever except in our hearts & memories...

I guess most of us remember the things we didn't like about his life, but guess what? It was his life, not mine nor yours....


Wonder why? Its okay when he was alive and people spoke of his various face lifts, & all the law suites, how weird he was, how a black man became a rich white woman & etc., but now I hear in passing-> "Why can't they just let him rest in peace?"

I have one better, Why not let it rest when he was alive? Michael Jackson was and still is an Icon despite his many magazine appearances & such.

What that man did in life will always be remembered, good & bad..

Michael Jackson made it possible for the Chris Brown's, Ne-yo's, Usher Raymond's & all others I forgot to mention in the music industry today.

If it weren't for his genius, African Americans in the music industry would have gone unnoticed.

Jokes of Mike are just jokes, their just words. Life is serious enough without baring the extra burden of someone else's dilemma. remember Mike the way you want to, and allow others to remember him how they choose. We all have opinions which make us all unique individuals.

That's just N' My Opinion

R.I.P. Mr. Jackson

On Thursday June 25th @ 2pm America lost a pop legend.

Many have enjoyed his music & loved him as an artist, myself included.

We remeber him for hits such as "Ben" , "Never Can Say Goodbye", "I'll Be There" "Mama's Peal", "ABC", "Off The Wall", "Heart Break Hotel", "Thriller", "Billy Jean", "Human Nature", & the list is endless.

As a child The Jackson 5 has paived the way for black artists breaking into the music business.

As a solo artist Michael Jackson made history becoming the fist male african american to top Elvis Presley's record in sales.

He has been both a teacher & student in the music business working with various artists in different types of styles.

With Michael Jackson the possibilities were endless.

Michael Jackson will be missed but never forgotten, you can see him in current artists today such as Chris Brown, Ne-yo, Usher, Justin Timberlake, & many others that have been inspired by the one and only pop king Mr. Michael Jackson.

My thoughts & prayers go out to his family in this time of loss.

N' My Opinion He Was & Always Will Be A Tredsetter & A Trail Blazer.

PEOPLE ARE WE NOT PAYING ATTENTION?!?

Okay, wonder when we will all start 2 pay a little bit more attention 2 what's going on around us.

Then again, I'm just going 2 have 2 keep hope alive.

I'm sure I am amonst many that are sick & tired of Jon & Kate +8

Publicity is such the cash cow.

Over Night stardom & fame seems easy made these days, I mean where else but in america can you become famous for absolutely nothing at all?

Examples:

Jon & Kate +8= A show for which curious people watch.
Who really cares that a fairly young couple goes to a fertility clinc to have a baby then ends up with twins, then if that wasn't enough they press their luck with another attempt for another child and end up with sextuplets...

I'm so over the fact that people find these ridiculous ways of fame & these ever the more ridiculous reality shows to revive, or better yet keep up with other stations airing same or similiar crap.

Does anyone ever read the fine print? Better yet ask yourself what happened to other couples that aired their dirty laundry for the world to see & judge- & you won't admit it but everyone is a bit judgemental.

Remember Nick & Jessica? How about Hulk Knows Best? Bet he aint seen that one commin' Bobby & Whitney- That was a couple that needed an intervention & only a playback would be an eye opener to atleast one of them, & it was.

Example 2:

So You Think You Can Dance? Really? This show is unreal, You ask for the abuse if in fact you know you only posess that stardom soley in your own mind, but then have the pair to go on a show that you know will hammer you if in fact you truely can't dance.

Then there's the waivers you sign that allows the station and the show to both sell and rerun your episode and over and over you get played again & again.

Now that's entertainment.

Okay I've said my peice, & u know its only N' My Opion...

Keep smiling & prey for the silly...

New Gripe With Many Game Consoles

Seems that keeping up with the Jones' is inevitable...

Once you get hooked on one game & finesse that, there's another game out for more than what you paid for the first game..

Genuine "Cash Cow".. On top of that they make newer consoles for the more curious types that want to experience the gaming experience.

They further involve you by, allowing you to play in the store, & get briefly hooked enough to purchase the game.

Then soon as that all happens, the competitor has something bigger & better to offer, and you find yourself buying into the hype.

Where does the madness end?

Have you seen Terminator Salvation?

I'm starting to believe the possibilities of a computer take over generated by human greed & comfort in economic gain.

I don't know, its just N' My Opinion,,

Please comment.

Is It Just Me?

Is it just me or has everyone online, as well as offline let minimal celeberty go to their head?

I surf the net looking for good finds in entertainment, networking and building legtimate streams of income. What I 've come across is a world on its way of being totally out of control.

I tune in to VH1 and see a groupie of a washed up elderly rapper, & his mini series gone horribly wrong where the reject of the show not once but twice rejected gets her own show.

Not once, Not twice, Not three times, Not even four times, but 5...

5 freaking shows where this moron gets celebrity from being ignorant & on top of that gets paid even if she doesn't get paid from the jobs they send her on...

I'm thinking this is reality gone wrong on so many diffeent levels.

I'm no hater, I'm just wondering when I am going to get my show?

I want to hit the ghetto lotto too.

I then see other wahed ashore celebs on the internet, wondering "I hope their not trying to revive their "D" class celeb status this way..

Hey VH1 if your reading this holla' @ ya' girl!!

Its always good for a giggle. But like I've always said...

Its just N' My Opinion..

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What's Best

What's Best For One Individual, May Not Be Best For Another.

Early On In Life We're Tought What's Morally Right, & What Isn't.

The Only Problem With This Theory Is That We're All Not Reared The Same In Our Up Bringing.

Our Surroundings & The Company We Keep Forms The Men & women We Become.

Weather You Agree Or Not Its True Theory.

Fact: A Murderer Kills For Their Own Twisted Reasons.

This Hurts Others Emotionally, Physically, Mentally, & Unfortunately Permentally. Same Applies For Theives, Rapist, & Etc.

This Doesn't Mean That These Individuals Don't Understand Right From Wrong, This Just Means That These Individuals Feels Justified In His/Her Actions Because Their Perception Of Right & Wrong Has Been Formed Long Ago And Uncorrected.

Fact: A Person Whom is Completely Different Also Knows Right & Wrong And Their Perception Of Life Is What Society Deems Correct. We Know Killing Is Wrong, Rape Is Wrong, Stealing Is Wrong, Etc. That Doesn't Mean That Wrong Can't Or Isn't Being Done, Just Means That The Perception Of It All Is Just Different.

Point: What Makes Us All Different In The Way We Live Our Lives, Who We Choose As Mates, Friends, Enemies Etc., Is The Fact We Have Similar Ways About Us But We Are All Not Clones.

I Say We Leave Judgement Up To A Higher Power.

That's Jus N' My Opinion

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Opinions & Judgements...

Opinions & Judgements..

When opinions are given they are just that, an opinion.

When judgements are made they can be both hypercritical, and hurtful.

I have an opinion on many things in life, and do my best to not judge anyone in any situation.

If you come to me as a friend, and want to just get things off your chest its my job as a friend to listen without passing judgement, or giving an opinion unless asked.

This method I thought worked both ways, in which I gave to much credit when assuming the same efforts would be applied.

This goes to say when you live your life, you live it for yourself.

What works for you may not for others, but that's what makes us all individuals otherwise we'd all be the same.

Labels weather we ourselves beleive it or not derive from judgement, so be careful of whom you judge unless your willing to be judged yourself.

But that's just N' My Opinion..

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OMG!! WHY? Gotta Be Happier Days Ahead..

Okay,

Why is it that the more I teach certain people, the dumber I get.

I as an individual have my own personality as do we all.

#1 rule in life is "Never Live In A Glass House & Continue To Throw Bricks At Another's"

Why is it that non judgmental people persist that they do not judge, but everytime their fat mouth opens its another unwanted criticism??

There will be a day that we are all judged, & on that day trust & believe it won't be by one of my damn peers!!

I have my opinions like I've said before & will continue to do so.

My point is that everyone isn't going to agree with everything said & done.

Each of us are different, I know I am...

Wonder What Double (AA) Really Means...? SMMFH!!

So Vein Dude Yes This Post Is About You!!

If I Had A Dollar For Evrytime "I heard I'm Sorry"

Millions would be made if everytime I heard "I'm Sorry"
I was tought along time ago that never say, or do anything you'd later regret.
I am a forgiving person maybe more so than many, but I never apologize for anything unless i sneezed on you, or stepped on your foot by accident.

When you say things to people you have to be very careful what you say because you cannot unring a bell.

I feel that peoples emotions get tied up in the heat of the moment & the say or do something that has been on their mind or harbored in their heart that made way to the surface.

What can sorry really cover if that is truely how you felt at the time?
Bridges can be built, weather a storm, grow old, torn down, or burned, the better soulution to "I'm Sorry" is the right choices made on how you see your bridges & which ones to cross...
But that's just N' My Opinion.

Has The World Gone Mad?

I did a poll on "Quality -vs- Quantity" & have the results.

I can be honest when I say that I don't understand insanity.

I feel N' My Opinion that this world has gone completely mad...

All the votes were for Quality..

I'm thinking these votes must have all been women.

I asked a few adverage guys to answer the same question, I got the same tally but here's where I'm confused.

Ok here it is- a man will buy cheaper beer to spend less money and get more beer..

That sounds like "Quantity over Quality"..

Ok here's another- a woman will buy anything in bulk without sacrificing quality cause you get what you pay for.

I am not beating up on the men, but its seens men have more tendencies of saying one thing and meaning something entirely different.

If quality is perferred over quantity, then why is it women say they want a good man but settle for the average? Same can be said about men except in actuality they perfer quantity over quality. Reverts back to the juvinile saying "The One Who Dies With The Most Toys Wins!"

That's Just N' My Opinion

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Pimps & Those Being Pimped... OMFG!

Oh My Goodness!!!!

I am so repulsed by the conversation I just had.

I kept hearing "I'm a pimp" "I'm a pimp"

Now this is a conversation between adults, but I can only speak for myself.

Okay so I said something about it.

Like why the hell would you want to be known as a pimp? I asked do you even know what it is to pimp, or what a pimp really does?

Ignorance is bliss!!

They actually explained to me at length what pimping is, how grand it is to be a pimp, etc.

One even had the stones to say that its like a church experience to a hoe.

I was like WTF?!!! are you serious?

He said: She wants to be marketed & made to feel special, so taking care of her man gives her the feeling she is special, she takes care of him the right way & always she's what they would call the bottom bi***...

Excuse me but aint that about a bit*&!?!

Here's my opinion,

She Said: If your sorry ass has to be a man depending on her to be on her back to gain your income, then your no pimp, your less than baby powder the supposed pimp. Say it with me people J.O.B. Pimping is so not the answer. If other peoples' pain of belittling themselves in any form gives you pleasure, then you need to seek God then a doctor. As far as the ecconomy being any way relative to people acting out of character and calling it survival is straight B.S.

When A Person Creates The Weather & Complains About The Rain Its A Person Revealing Themselves & You Have No Other Choice But To Believe Them.

A Question Posed 2 Me 2day

I was asked "Do you feel the ecconomy is causing most people to act out of character?"

I asked "What Do You Mean?"

"Well the job hunting, and bill paying can get stressful. You tend to do things you wouldn't normally do, but its about survival."

If you know anything about me as a person, you know this I have an opinion.

Here it is:

I believe that if you think you are an adult then act like one.

God gives us all our crosses to bare, how we bare them is up to us as individuals.

Ok this is to say that each of us has problems, things that need to be done & taken care of.

You either take care of your situation(s) at hand, or sit complain & wait for your problems to burry you.

Using another person for personal gain & playing games with your own life only causes personal drama.

Karma is so real, but if you don't believe me then keep playing with it.

That's just "N' My Opinion"

Please feel free to respond with your own comments good or bad at nevadiva4u@gmail.com

I Gave You Took

I gave my heart, You Took my heart.

I gave you love & expected nothing.

You Gave my heart back but, by then it was torn apart.

I asked for nothing major, just respect- 2 years aint that something?

I guess I expected to much truth from someone experienced to lie.

I hurt, I'm human so its going to feel that way.

I gave too much, I loved to much & maybe that'll never change til the day I die.

Happiness is wanted, and maybe it'll come someday.

I give myself no pitty parties, cause change is constant & makes you better.
You live & learn - move on & its growth from which you learn it.
It gives you your power to with stand any emotional weather.

A lesson well learned, not that I deserved or earned it.

Owed 2 A Luv Lost

You know who you are

I paid the price & didn't know the cost

I'll be okay, cause this time you went way to far.

Hate you? Never.. But all wounds need time to heal.

I'm giving you more than you gave me & keeping it 100% real.

By Nevadiva4u

Response 2 "Social Networking.. Hmmm.."

tameia

to me show

details 1:47 PM (26 minutes ago) Reply

Good afternoon Neva,

I must agree with everything you have written on your blog about people miss using live webcams. That's not to mention just as many individuals miss using the internet in hopes of finding a sexual partner. It's my opinion that the internet can be utilize for socializing, and entertainment, but when people begin to become obsessed with it and make it a part of there dailey routine with hopes of meeting that man, or woman they can potentially have sexual relations with, seek out children, or just scam people out of there hard earn money then there's a serious problem and they need to seek "PROFESSIONAL" help.

Warm Regards,

Tameia

Social Networking With Live Cams... Hmmm...

Social Networking With Live Cams...
Hmmm... What's that all about?

In today's online society of networking, the live cam has been both a blessing & a curse.

The positive side is: That it allows actual businesses to do real time web conferences, soldiers a chance to reconnect with loved ones while their away, families that live far away but still would like to connect online, & etc.

The negative side is: It has an addictive pull to those with an addictive type personality that doesn't allow them to pull away to do more positive things.

Like go to social events, attend a concert, read a book, find ways to get extra income, or any income for that matter.

The fascination with certain sites that allow you to be someone else besides your true self, like avatar sites and video blogging sites & etc.

I think this fact alone tends to make the addictive sites & people to relaxed at doing nothing & using sites like these as free dating sites for people that do the same thing all day.

Which makes you wonder how they support themselves if their ALWAYS online ALL day EVERY day?

Hmmm...

Plz comment on this blog or e-mail your thoughts to "nevadiva4u@gmail.com"

I don't know, but "N' My Opinion" Its counter productive when its miss used.

The Possibilities

The possibilities are endless when your self motivated.

Is it possible to live forever?

The answer is yes, the better question is how you decide to do so.

Did I loose you for a minute?

Let me explain then, a memory good or bad remains in the hearts & minds of those you've loved & have loved you.

How you are remebered is completely on you.

When I'm gone from this earth I will be remembered for the person I was by those I've loved & whom have loved me, so I know I'll live forever & be remembered fondly.

How will you be remembered when you get to live forever?
The possibilities are endless.

Taking Responsibility 4 Your Own Actions!!

When your actions cause other people pain, be prepared for karma with the strenght times 10.

If you read the bible & have faith in God, then you should know that it was written "Do unto other's as you would have them do unto you."

With that being said, energy is not lost only transfered.

A smile is contagious, and negativity holds the same power.

If your going to be infectious, then be prepared for the outcome of you actions.

Why Ask Why?

Why ask why when the solution to self inflicted problems lie within?

In life we have opinions, choices, & real life situations.

Every choice we make in life is change, each step we take should be forward, not backward.

Life is one big obstacle each one of us has to get through & if you play now- you pay for it later. Live life without regret, keep progressing forward, & create your world of solution instead of despair.