If I Had A Dollar For Evrytime "I heard I'm Sorry"

Millions would be made if everytime I heard "I'm Sorry"
I was tought along time ago that never say, or do anything you'd later regret.
I am a forgiving person maybe more so than many, but I never apologize for anything unless i sneezed on you, or stepped on your foot by accident.

When you say things to people you have to be very careful what you say because you cannot unring a bell.

I feel that peoples emotions get tied up in the heat of the moment & the say or do something that has been on their mind or harbored in their heart that made way to the surface.

What can sorry really cover if that is truely how you felt at the time?
Bridges can be built, weather a storm, grow old, torn down, or burned, the better soulution to "I'm Sorry" is the right choices made on how you see your bridges & which ones to cross...
But that's just N' My Opinion.

Has The World Gone Mad?

I did a poll on "Quality -vs- Quantity" & have the results.

I can be honest when I say that I don't understand insanity.

I feel N' My Opinion that this world has gone completely mad...

All the votes were for Quality..

I'm thinking these votes must have all been women.

I asked a few adverage guys to answer the same question, I got the same tally but here's where I'm confused.

Ok here it is- a man will buy cheaper beer to spend less money and get more beer..

That sounds like "Quantity over Quality"..

Ok here's another- a woman will buy anything in bulk without sacrificing quality cause you get what you pay for.

I am not beating up on the men, but its seens men have more tendencies of saying one thing and meaning something entirely different.

If quality is perferred over quantity, then why is it women say they want a good man but settle for the average? Same can be said about men except in actuality they perfer quantity over quality. Reverts back to the juvinile saying "The One Who Dies With The Most Toys Wins!"

That's Just N' My Opinion

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Pimps & Those Being Pimped... OMFG!

Oh My Goodness!!!!

I am so repulsed by the conversation I just had.

I kept hearing "I'm a pimp" "I'm a pimp"

Now this is a conversation between adults, but I can only speak for myself.

Okay so I said something about it.

Like why the hell would you want to be known as a pimp? I asked do you even know what it is to pimp, or what a pimp really does?

Ignorance is bliss!!

They actually explained to me at length what pimping is, how grand it is to be a pimp, etc.

One even had the stones to say that its like a church experience to a hoe.

I was like WTF?!!! are you serious?

He said: She wants to be marketed & made to feel special, so taking care of her man gives her the feeling she is special, she takes care of him the right way & always she's what they would call the bottom bi***...

Excuse me but aint that about a bit*&!?!

Here's my opinion,

She Said: If your sorry ass has to be a man depending on her to be on her back to gain your income, then your no pimp, your less than baby powder the supposed pimp. Say it with me people J.O.B. Pimping is so not the answer. If other peoples' pain of belittling themselves in any form gives you pleasure, then you need to seek God then a doctor. As far as the ecconomy being any way relative to people acting out of character and calling it survival is straight B.S.

When A Person Creates The Weather & Complains About The Rain Its A Person Revealing Themselves & You Have No Other Choice But To Believe Them.

A Question Posed 2 Me 2day

I was asked "Do you feel the ecconomy is causing most people to act out of character?"

I asked "What Do You Mean?"

"Well the job hunting, and bill paying can get stressful. You tend to do things you wouldn't normally do, but its about survival."

If you know anything about me as a person, you know this I have an opinion.

Here it is:

I believe that if you think you are an adult then act like one.

God gives us all our crosses to bare, how we bare them is up to us as individuals.

Ok this is to say that each of us has problems, things that need to be done & taken care of.

You either take care of your situation(s) at hand, or sit complain & wait for your problems to burry you.

Using another person for personal gain & playing games with your own life only causes personal drama.

Karma is so real, but if you don't believe me then keep playing with it.

That's just "N' My Opinion"

Please feel free to respond with your own comments good or bad at nevadiva4u@gmail.com

I Gave You Took

I gave my heart, You Took my heart.

I gave you love & expected nothing.

You Gave my heart back but, by then it was torn apart.

I asked for nothing major, just respect- 2 years aint that something?

I guess I expected to much truth from someone experienced to lie.

I hurt, I'm human so its going to feel that way.

I gave too much, I loved to much & maybe that'll never change til the day I die.

Happiness is wanted, and maybe it'll come someday.

I give myself no pitty parties, cause change is constant & makes you better.
You live & learn - move on & its growth from which you learn it.
It gives you your power to with stand any emotional weather.

A lesson well learned, not that I deserved or earned it.

Owed 2 A Luv Lost

You know who you are

I paid the price & didn't know the cost

I'll be okay, cause this time you went way to far.

Hate you? Never.. But all wounds need time to heal.

I'm giving you more than you gave me & keeping it 100% real.

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Response 2 "Social Networking.. Hmmm.."

tameia

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details 1:47 PM (26 minutes ago) Reply

Good afternoon Neva,

I must agree with everything you have written on your blog about people miss using live webcams. That's not to mention just as many individuals miss using the internet in hopes of finding a sexual partner. It's my opinion that the internet can be utilize for socializing, and entertainment, but when people begin to become obsessed with it and make it a part of there dailey routine with hopes of meeting that man, or woman they can potentially have sexual relations with, seek out children, or just scam people out of there hard earn money then there's a serious problem and they need to seek "PROFESSIONAL" help.

Warm Regards,

Tameia

Social Networking With Live Cams... Hmmm...

Social Networking With Live Cams...
Hmmm... What's that all about?

In today's online society of networking, the live cam has been both a blessing & a curse.

The positive side is: That it allows actual businesses to do real time web conferences, soldiers a chance to reconnect with loved ones while their away, families that live far away but still would like to connect online, & etc.

The negative side is: It has an addictive pull to those with an addictive type personality that doesn't allow them to pull away to do more positive things.

Like go to social events, attend a concert, read a book, find ways to get extra income, or any income for that matter.

The fascination with certain sites that allow you to be someone else besides your true self, like avatar sites and video blogging sites & etc.

I think this fact alone tends to make the addictive sites & people to relaxed at doing nothing & using sites like these as free dating sites for people that do the same thing all day.

Which makes you wonder how they support themselves if their ALWAYS online ALL day EVERY day?

Hmmm...

Plz comment on this blog or e-mail your thoughts to "nevadiva4u@gmail.com"

I don't know, but "N' My Opinion" Its counter productive when its miss used.

The Possibilities

The possibilities are endless when your self motivated.

Is it possible to live forever?

The answer is yes, the better question is how you decide to do so.

Did I loose you for a minute?

Let me explain then, a memory good or bad remains in the hearts & minds of those you've loved & have loved you.

How you are remebered is completely on you.

When I'm gone from this earth I will be remembered for the person I was by those I've loved & whom have loved me, so I know I'll live forever & be remembered fondly.

How will you be remembered when you get to live forever?
The possibilities are endless.

Taking Responsibility 4 Your Own Actions!!

When your actions cause other people pain, be prepared for karma with the strenght times 10.

If you read the bible & have faith in God, then you should know that it was written "Do unto other's as you would have them do unto you."

With that being said, energy is not lost only transfered.

A smile is contagious, and negativity holds the same power.

If your going to be infectious, then be prepared for the outcome of you actions.

Why Ask Why?

Why ask why when the solution to self inflicted problems lie within?

In life we have opinions, choices, & real life situations.

Every choice we make in life is change, each step we take should be forward, not backward.

Life is one big obstacle each one of us has to get through & if you play now- you pay for it later. Live life without regret, keep progressing forward, & create your world of solution instead of despair.